Thursday, June 28, 2018

The doctor who smoked

Print Edition - 2018-06-28  |  Oped/ The Kathmandu Post

The doctor who smoked

- PARSHU SHRESTHA
Jun 28, 2018-It was already seven o’clock in the evening. There was a long queue of patients waiting for their turn to see the doctor. The clinic was on the second floor of an old, traditional Newar building made of brick and clay mortar with wooden windows and doors. The clinic overlooked the busy town square. The doctor was in his room seeing his patients one at a time. The doctor’s helper would call out the name of the waiting patients every 10 to 15 minutes.

I had been a jaundice patient for two weeks. I had lost hope after being treated by a vaidya. I swallowed his pills and powder three times a day and frequently ran to the washroom for two weeks without any relief. Thus, losing hope with the Ayurvedic medication, I had chosen to see this doctor. Since this was the first time that I had caught jaundice and had such a strict dietary restriction, I was desperate. Finally, after an hour, my turn came and I entered the doctor’s room. He was sitting in his arm chair with all his medical equipment on the table. The doctor examined all my past reports and told me to lie flat on a table adjacent to his table and pressed my stomach and ribcage gently with his fingers. After examining me, he sat down at his table to write out a prescription.
My father and I came out of the doctor’s clinic after he had finished checking me. We came down the wooden staircase to the medical shop on the ground floor. My father took the prescription from me and handed it to a man in the shop. The man prepared a bill and gave it to us along with the medicines. As we were ready to depart, I realised that I had forgotten to ask the doctor what I could and could not eat while on medication. I immediately rushed back to the doctor’s room which was already engulfed in dead silence as the queue of patients outside had gone.

As I entered the room, the doctor was startled. I felt the pungent smell of cigarette smoke in the room. For a while, I forgot why I had entered the room as the doctor looked so shocked. “Sorry for the interruption, Doctor Sahib,” I said to him as politely as I could, “but I forgot to ask you what things I am supposed to avoid during treatment.” The doctor twitched his face a bit uneasily and opened his mouth, “You must avoid oil, spicy food, alcoholic drinks, tobacco and cigarettes.” Fluffy white puffs of smoke escaped from his mouth as he spoke. I felt choked. The eyes became pungent. I rushed back to my father and never went back to the doctor’s clinic again.


Published: 28-06-2018 07:28

Two women and a baby

Print Edition - 2018-06-15  |  Oped/ The Kathmandu Post

Two women and a baby

- PARSHU SHRESTHA
Jun 15, 2018-My mom loves small children very much and she has a capacity to befriend any child within a short while. She takes even unknown children in her lap and kisses them and plays with them. Maybe it’s because she lost her six-day-old daughter (my kid sister) many years ago. Once, she almost found herself in trouble because of her infatuation for children. My mom’s distant relatives had recently migrated to our neighbourhood from the hills. They had a baby who was a few months old. Naturally, my mother became fond of the baby and she started spending a lot of time in their house. The nursing mother often requested my mother to look after her baby while she was busy with her household chores. There was very good friendship between the two ladies for some months.

I also started going to the house to play with the baby. She was fair, beautiful and delicate. She used to smile and throw her arms towards me in a gesture that she was ready to be picked up. Her tiny, robust and muscular hands and feet were smooth and enchanting. Sometimes, she wetted her smelly spongy bed and I changed her nappy. We both started to like each other’s company.
One day, the whole situation changed. The family celebrated the baby’s second birthday and invited almost everybody in the neighbourhood to the party, but not us. We were surprised. The next day, somebody informed my mother that she had been suspected of being a witch, and the child’s mother was watching her closely. The baby had been ill with fever and loose motions two weeks ago. My mother had changed her nappy two or three times. When the mother took the baby to a village shaman, he had told her to secretly watch my mother’s activities around the baby because she could be a witch. Perhaps the shaman knew that my mother had lost both her husband and baby daughter and was taking shelter in her parents’ house.

We stopped going to the house and talking to the family. My grandmother also found out about it and scolded my mother for showing unnecessary attachment with the baby. I remained furious with the baby’s mother all through the years until we left the place after my SLC exam, but it was not good to talk about it anymore. After two decades, I feel a chill running down my spine whenever I read, hear or watch news about women being tortured and killed after being accused of being a witch. What if my mom’s parents were not well-off and reputed in the whole village? What if my mom’s brother was not an Indian army man known for his fierceness? Perhaps she would have suffered the same fate as many poor and helpless women in different parts of the country have suffered.

Published: 15-06-2018 07:36